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Those feelings of bitterness and hatred came back into me for a short while today. I saw a "friend" of mine with some guy she likes. You might thinking.. SO what is up with that ?? The key issue is that my "friend" has a BOYFRIEND and that guy she was with today is not her boyfriend. She is thinking of ending her 3 year relationship with her boyfriend whom she has deemed hopeless and being with him will not give her anymore happiness. What I cannot take it is that the whole situation is sooo damn similar to what had happened to me over the last few months. But this is worse for her boyfriend because I think her boyfriend is not aware of all these "outings" and they have not broken up yet. She has left him hanging in the air and waiting for an outcome.
My respect for her has officially dropped to ZERO and I am 100% against what she is doing right now because it is unethical and morally not right. I think that she has lost her values and in the midst of her weaknesses, she has fallen into a trap that is going to hurt her even more in the future. When a girl is vulnerable, any guy who is just average nice will be perceived as many times better than the old one because of the negative perception that she already has on the old one and this is when a bad decision will be made. People have tried talking to her about it but then she still prefers the new one. If she really prefers the new one, then just end the old one and do not let him suffer anymore. Haiz. I think if she still does not wake up her idea soon, no one will be willing to come to her rescue if anything happens. Her closest friends are starting to give up on her already.
For my case, at least I was aware of what went on thanks to my super investigative skills and she has broken up with me but what I could not take as the quick change of heart. It is like a TRADE and change of ownership. Relationships should not be so heartless. However, I must agree to something that I saw on facebook a few months ago. A broken relationship is like a broken glass. No matter how hard you try to put it back, it will still be broken and there is no point getting yourself hurt again by trying to pick it up. I tried picking the broken glasses up again which led me to get hurt even more. It hurt so much that even plasters cannot help and the only solution was to sweep it up and throw it into the dustbin. Things did got better after I decided to sweep it away.